For years, leadership was associated with strength, authority, and control. But modern leadership is evolving. The best leaders today aren't the ones who appear invincible. Instead, they're the ones who are authentic, open, and willing to be vulnerable.
Vulnerability in leadership isn't about weakness. It's about leading with honesty, emotional intelligence, and the courage to be real. If you want to build trust, strengthen team performance, and create a workplace culture where people thrive, embracing vulnerability is key.
"Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren't always comfortable, but they're never weakness."
- Brené Brown, research professor and author of "Daring Greatly"
Vulnerability in leadership means being open, honest, and willing to show your human side. It involves:
Rather than diminishing credibility, these actions build trust, foster collaboration, and strengthen leadership influence.
According to research from Harvard Business Review, leaders who demonstrate vulnerability see measurable improvements in team performance and innovation.
Teams thrive when they feel safe to speak up, share ideas, and take risks. Leaders who show vulnerability create psychological safety, which research from Google's Project Aristotle found to be the #1 predictor of high-performing teams.
Real-world story time: When Alan Mulally took over as CEO of Ford during the 2008 financial crisis, he transformed the company's culture by creating a color-coded reporting system where executives could openly admit problems (marked in red on a spreadsheet) without fear of punishment. This vulnerability-based approach helped Ford avoid bankruptcy when competitors failed. Read the full story.
People follow leaders who are real, not robotic. When leaders embrace vulnerability, they create a genuine connection with their teams, leading to higher engagement and loyalty.
A Gallup study found that employees who feel their manager is genuinely interested in them as people are 3x more likely to be engaged at work.
If leaders only reward perfection, teams avoid risk. But when leaders admit challenges and share lessons from failure, they inspire creativity, innovation, and calculated risk-taking.
Try this: At a next team meeting, share a recent mistake you made and what you learned from it. Ask team members to share their "productive failures" as well. This normalises learning from mistakes.
Leaders who ask for input and admit when they need help gain fresh perspectives and smarter solutions. Vulnerability fosters a culture of shared learning and collective problem-solving.
According to research from McKinsey, teams with leaders who demonstrate vulnerability make better decisions and solve problems more effectively.
Studies show that leaders who demonstrate vulnerability build stronger emotional connections with employees, leading to higher retention and a more engaged workforce.
Research from Development Dimensions International found that empathy - a key component of vulnerable leadership - is the strongest predictor of leader performance.
Myth | Reality |
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Vulnerability is a weakness | It takes courage to be open and honest as a leader. Research from the University of Washington shows vulnerable leaders are actually perceived as more confident. |
Leaders should always appear strong | People trust relatable, authentic leaders - not distant, "perfect" ones. Approachability increases influence. |
Showing vulnerability means oversharing | Vulnerability is about transparency and honesty, not emotional dumping. Strategic openness builds trust. |
Employees will lose respect for vulnerable leaders | Teams respect leaders more when they admit mistakes and model self-awareness. This creates a culture of accountability. |
How to Lead with Vulnerability (Without Losing Authority)
Instead of hiding failures, acknowledge them. Say, "I got this wrong, and here's what I learned."
This builds credibility and shows growth.
When Ed Catmull, co-founder of Pixar, openly discussed the company's failures in his book "Creativity, Inc.," it strengthened his reputation as a leader rather than diminishing it.
Leaders don't have to have all the answers. Involve your team by saying, "I'd love your perspective on this." This fosters collaboration and innovation.
Encourage two-way feedback. When leaders ask, "What's something I could do better?" they model growth and invite trust.
Research from Zenger Folkman shows leaders who actively seek feedback are substantially more effective than those who don't.
Being vulnerable doesn't mean oversharing. Share struggles with purpose, tying them to lessons, solutions, and team growth.
Employees take cues from leaders. When leaders demonstrate honesty, humility, and self-awareness, they inspire teams to do the same.
When Satya Nadella became CEO of Microsoft, he shifted the company's culture from rigid competition to collaboration and learning. One of his first acts was admitting past leadership mistakes and openly embracing a growth mindset.
By prioritising curiosity, learning, and psychological safety, Nadella built a company culture that encouraged innovation and turned Microsoft into one of the most valuable companies in the world. Microsoft's stock price has increased over 500% since Nadella took over in 2014.
1. Start small: Begin by sharing a professional challenge with a trusted colleague.
2. Practice phrases like "I don't know, but I'll find out" or "I made a mistake".
3. Create team rituals where everyone shares both successes and lessons learned.
4. Measure psychological safety in your team with anonymous surveys.
5. Read resources on emotional intelligence and vulnerable leadership.
The best leaders aren't the ones who pretend to have all the answers. They're the ones who lead with honesty, courage, and connection.
Your vulnerability journey starts with a single step. Perhaps acknowledging an area where you're still growing or asking for feedback in a new way.
Resources to deepen your leadership journey:
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